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Did you know that are there are between 250 – 1000 accidental deaths from erotic asphyxiation every year. Even though the number is very small, autoerotic deaths are on the rise. Erotic asphyxiation (EA) is the official term for breath play a common fetish in the BDSM world. Although I consider this type of fetish very dangerous I wanted to discuss some of the “Breath Control Play Techniques” I offer.

What is Breathplay?

Breathplay: The restricition of airflow commonly used during sexual intercoarse to heighten ones orgasm, also referred to as (erotic asphyxiation). While breathplay can be incorporated into sexual practice between partners. The fetish can also be practiced alone, (autoerotic asphyxiation).

Many of the cases in which a person has died in relation to this activity happened when the person was doing it alone.

You may remember a few famous people who have died from autoertotic aspyxiation, (David Carradine, Michael Hutchence, Kevin Gilbert). Some say they took their own lives, suicide, but the suspicious circumstances surrounding their deaths points strongly towards, death by autoerotic asphyxiation.

Breath Play Masterbation

Considering the dangers associated with autoertotic aspyxiation, why then would anyone participate in this hazardous fetish, especially alone. Before delving deeper into breathplay, let me ask you a question.

Do you remember a particular moment in your life when you had a MIND BLOWING ORGASM? You know the type (mind-altering, breathtaking, overwhelming), It doesn’t really matter what you where doing at the time, I just want you to recall that feeling.

When you rob your brain of oxygen you experience a euphoric high, dizziness, before you lose consciousness. To increase the intensity of your orgasm, individuals who are into breathplay masturbate while strangling themselves with cords, ropes, scarves, and ties, or by sealing their heads in plastic bags.

I know, it sounds seriously fucked up, but according to clients who actively practice breathplay, it’s a spectacularly addictive experience. The safest form of breathplay is holding your breath while masterbating.

Smothering Domination

While touring the US I recall one day in particular, every session booked was in for some form of breathplay. While I do offer breathplay and edging I DO NOT OFFER KNOCKOUTS by asphyxiation. Most forms of breathplay that I offer are in the form of (breast smothering, ass smothering, face sitting, HOM, choking, scissoring).

Not all men who request breathplay are looking to orgasm by masterbating. Some men love the fear, panic, confusion and loss of inhibitions while being dominated.

My favourite way to limit the intake of oxygen is either by scissoring, hand over mouth (HOM) or facesitting. If you don’t already know and haven’t heard, my scissor holds are some strongest in the industry.

Breath Control Play Techniques

Ass Smothering: breathing is controlled by smothering the clients face with my ass. Hands can be tied depending on clients requests. Ass smothering and Facesitting although two different fetishes can both be used to control breathing. You might be interested in an earlier article I wrote on Ass Worship, which explains the various ass worship/smothering positions that can be used in breathplay. 

Ass smothering merges beautifully with edging as my hands are free to control other elements of the body. Controlling both oxygen intake and orgasm.  

Facesitting Queening Mistress 

Scissoring: there are various scissor holds that can be used to control the clients breathing. 1) Reverse figure 4 is a perfect example, once I have interlocked my legs around the clients head, I simply contract my hamstrings pulling their head tight between my butt cheeks, cutting of their oxygen.

2) Body scissors is another technique that can be used in combination with hand over mouth (HOM). Once trapped between my legs there is no ESCAPE, I can easily control pressure through my legs and breath with my hands. 

Choking: I love that my wrestling lessons have taught me how to choke out a guy with various choke holds in seconds: (rear naked choke, triangle choke, straight arm bar, scissor choke, bare hands). Clients may request choke holds during wrestling matches to further enhance the element of domination and female superiority. 

Breast Smothering: Breath smothering is the act of a woman using her breasts to cover the mans face. At times forcing her breasts into the mans mouth (face fucking). As you might expect breast smothering is a popular form of breathplay. What hetrosexual man doesn’t like “BOOBS”, I rest my case. 

Another form of breathplay that shares the same characteristics as breast smothering is belly smothering. Instead of using the breasts the belly is used to suffocate the victim, this is also a very effective technique, especially if the girl is well built. Yes, like myself, I’m deceivingly heavy for my size, or so I’ve been told.

Reverse figure 4 with breath play

Oxygen Deprivation

Interesting fact, erotic asphyxiation (EA) began in the 17th century as a treatment for erectile dysfunction when doctors observed that male hanging victims often developed erections. Jesus, what a bummer!

During breath play sessions it is not uncommon for men to develop erections and at times prematurely ejaculate without masterbation. Not that it has any relevance on this article, but interesting all the same. I have had men arrive with full boners, before the session even commenced, just at the thoughts of acting out their fantasy lol.

Jerk Off Instruction vs Orgasm Denial

Interested in booking a breathplay session? maybe you have your own breath play control techniques you would like to share? Note, while I’m very open minded and love to help my clients live out their deepest fantasies. Safety is paramount during sessions, there are extreme versions of breathplay, (bagging, strangulation), but for me the risk are not worth the reward (money).

I have no desire to spend my latter years in jail for manslaughter. Breath play is a fetish that should be respected at all times. Boundaries and safe words should always be agreed before commencing any sessions involving breath play control techniques.

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I tour regularly across the world, my latest travel dates can be found on my Tour page. When I’m not travelling, you can find me in London every 4-6 weeks. If you ever find yourself travelling to Ireland, I live a short distance from Dublin and Belfast.

Is this your first session? most common answers can be found on my Frequently Asked Questions. Read what others are saying about Sara, Testimonials.

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Session wrestling has given me the opportunity to travel the world and broaden my horizons. Although I now offer a wider range of fetishes than when I first started, mixed wrestling (male vs female) is still one of my most requested fetishes. Today’s blog post primarily focuses on the differences between “Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive” based on my own personal views as a female session wrestler.

Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive

While there are other forms of wrestling (bondage, erotic, semi comp, competitive). I have singled out Fantasy and Semi Competitive due to the confusion between these two fetishes.

First let’s break down the true meaning of the terms fantasy and semi competitive to better understand how they relate to wrestling.

Fantasy wrestling: the opposite of reality, a strong addiction to something that is not real. In the realm of fantasy wrestling, roleplaying, wrestling characters and storylines play a large part in creating the fantasy, allowing the person’s imagination the freedom to create their ultimate reality, even if its only for a short time.

Semi Competitive: allows the client to provide some resistance, but not enough to try to win the match. The emphasis is not on winning but fun. Physical contact and holds are more important than who wins the match. Usually the guy is defensive in his style of wrestling, while the girl is offensive, trying to put him into various wrestling holds. This style of wrestling allows the client to test the strength and skills of his female competitor without the intensity or injury risk of a competitive match.

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Male vs Female Wrestling

Now that we have determined the true meaning of fantasy wrestling vs semi competitive. What is the confusion between these two fetishes? I’m really not sure, for some unknown reason men at times interpret both fantasy wrestling and semi competitive as FULL COMPETITIVE. Even though most female wrestlers clearly state on their websites and in email communication that they DON’T offer competitive wrestling due to the increased risk of injury.

I think it’s fair to say that most female session wrestlers have experienced a “BAD Wrestling Session” at some stage throughout their career, including myself. If a girl has a bad experience with a client and feels her safety was compromised, this will often result in the girl reporting the guy on session girls as a warning to other session wrestlers.

Speaking from my own experience, I have taken bookings from guys requesting either Fantasy or Semi Competitive wrestling. Then on session day, within minutes of the wrestling session starting, they go full competitive, their goal, to WIN by any means possible. I can understand how some men might misunderstand the term slight resistance in semi comp. With regards to fantasy wrestling I really don’t grasp WTF they are thinking.

I pride myself on clear communication in emails for two reasons 1) Clients receive the session type they have requested and are more likely to rebook 2) Everyone is clear on the do’s and don’ts, and neither party is offended or injured.

How To Book a Session Wrestler or Dominatrix

Mixed Wrestling Story

Below is an example from previous session several months ago. We call our subject John for the purposes of this story. John books a semi competitive wrestling session outlining in his emails that he has sessioned before. He enjoys head scissors, chokes, schoolgirl pins with an element of face sitting.

I ask John his height, weight and what his interpretation of semi competitive wrestling is. I also mention that I DO NOT OFFER COMPETITIVE. John replied stating that he would like a friendly match, but really just enjoys some light wrestling with domination. Current weight 225 lbs, height 6ft 4in.

John was a good match, so I booked him in. Upon arrival John did indeed seem nice, we chatted briefly for a few minutes before starting the session. I did not get any indication on Johns actual intentions until several minutes into the session. John clearly had his own agenda.

Competitive Wrestling

John was after a full competitive wrestling match, not what he originally booked. This really pisses me off as I clearly explain in emails and on my website that I DO NOT OFFER FULL COMPETITIVE. I let the session continue placing John into several choke holds, big guys are strong but run out of gas fast. This still didn’t deter John and at one point he threw me across the room banging my head on the floor.

At this point I was ready to end the session, but he apologised and after a few minutes I continued. The session re-commenced and initially the intensity was dialled down, but this didn’t last for long. John was still using way to much force considering I was half his size, during one move he clipped the side of my face with his elbow, I had enough, I was furious.

I managed to place John into a rear naked choke, took a large deep breath, pushed his head forward and down, cutting off his air supply. It wasn’t long before John was out cold.

I released the choke letting John recover, then ordered him to leave the room, the session was over. Although things could have been much worse, I escaped with just a bump on my head and a bruise on my cheek. Had it not been for the private wrestling lessons that I have been attending, things could have been much worse.

Semi Comp Wrestling Hazards

Often girls will not want to end a session early, due to upsetting a client and receiving a bad review, despite the client putting the girl in an uncomfortable position.

From experience, I have learnt that if a session doesn’t feel right in the first few minutes. I will stop the session, give the client the opportunity to cool down and lower their resistance. If the same behaviour continues and I feel that my safety is compromised, I will end the session.

Thankfully it doesn’t happen very often, and is very rare, clearer communication in emails and checking the time wasters list on session girls helps to weed out, time wasters and dangerous clients.

Booking a Mixed Wrestling Session

Both female session wrestlers and male clients have their own interpretations of “fantasy wrestling vs semi competitive”. It is vital that there is clear communication and boundaries set, so to avoid disappointment and injury. There will always be dangerous men who wish to hurt women, hopefully with better communication between fellow wrestlers. Men with this type of agenda can be avoided or at the very least reported to warn others, girl power.

Interested in booking a session with Sara? check out my Tours page for my latest travel destinations. You can find a comprehensive list of services I offer with fetish descriptions on my Booking page. PLEASE only inquire if you are serious about booking, my time is limited. Remember to check out my latest articles on my Blog and Follow Sara on Twitter.

I starting writing this article several weeks ago due to the number of requests that I was receiving for the fetish “Jerk Off Instruction” abbreviated to (JOI). While there are similarities between certain fetishes, I wanted to address the difference between Jerk off Instruction vs Orgasm Denial.

In case you’re wondering, the answer is YES, I do offer both fetishes in sessions. If I have peaked your interest, let’s get down to the official textbook meaning for each individual fetish.

Jerk off Instruction vs Orgasm Denial

Jerk Off Instruction : Giving someone instruction on how to jerk off, and or masturbate for pleasure.

Orgasm Denial : The act of not letting a man have an orgasm for a stipulated period time.

While each fetish has its own separate meaning, personally from my experience and requests from clients. Both kinks are closely related especially within the context of Femdom JOI.

Instructional Masterbation

Men will book a JOI session with a mistress/dominatrix requesting that she watch while instructing them on how to “Jerk Off”. The thrill and excitement of being watched (voyeurism) by a beautiful, strong, dominate women is, according to past clients, a mind-blowing experience.

Men are very much visual creatures, that’s one of the reasons men LOVE porn. Watching porn increases a hormone called Dopamine by as much as 200%, which is the key neurotransmitter involved in stimulating orgasms.

Next time your Jerking OFF, imagine a beautiful, half naked women instructing you “How To Jerk Off”. How would you feel?

Jerk Off Instruction Femdom Session 

1) I want you to take off all your clothes and show me your erection
2) DO NOT CUM until instructed to do so, I do not like to be dissapointed
3) Stroke your cock twisting the skin as you slide your hand up and down your cock
4) When I click my fingers, STOP jerking your cock immediately so I can watch as it pulsates
5) Begin Jerking your cock again and this time grab your balls and squeeze them hard
6) Now kneel down on all fours and keep jerking your cock while I watch your balls hang
7) DO NOT CUM Yet, wait for my command.
8) I’m going to put my finger in your ass and count to 10. DO NOT CUM till I reach ZERO


Above is a brief synopsis of what might happen in a JOI femdom session. Jerk Off Instruction is all about handing over control to another person, Mistress, Dominatrix or Partner. With regards to Jerk off instruction vs Orgasm Denial, I am sure your starting to see how one fetish compliments the other. Even though they are separate fetishes in their own right, both merge beautifully together.

Extended Orgasm Denial

Orgasm denial is a form of domination where a mistress controls the mans orgasm. You’re not allowed to orgasm until given permission to do so, we are not talking hours, but weeks or even months. Mistresses may use a chastity cage to ensure that no masterbation occurs and that their slave is completely under their control.

If I had to choose a preference between the two fetishes. I would opt for Jerk Off Instruction over Orgasm Denial. I enjoy dominating men, in the moment, watching them squirm, teasing and denying orgasm, but in the end I also enjoy mutual satisfaction.

As I mentioned earlier I do offer Orgsam Denial, but within the context of a booked session.

Small Penis Humiliation

Another fetish that is closely related to jerk off instruction is Small Penis Humiliation. Some men get off being ridiculed for the size of their cock. Combine SPH with JOI and you have two fetishes that combine, verbal humiliation, voyeurism and jerk off instruction.

I do offer a service “Rate My Penis” where you can purchase an Amazon Gift Voucher, then email me several images of your cock, both flaccid and erect for an overall score out of 10.

Jerk Off Instruction vs Orgasm Denial

What are your thoughts? Which fetish do you prefer? Have you experienced one or both of these fetishes? I would love to hear your thoughts. You can follow and comment on twitter @MissSaraLips. Interested in booking a JOI session, check out my latest tour dates as I may be coming to a city near you. If your based in the UK, I frequently travel to London and live a short distance from Belfast and Dublin.

Book a Jerk Off Instruction Session, with Sara Lips. Answering the questions below in your initial inquiry helps me to better understand you, the person. DEPOSITS ARE REQUIRED NO EXCEPTIONS!

Tribute to Cum Questionnaire

1) How many times can you cum in 60 mins
2) What size is your cock and can you maintain an erection
3) Do you enjoy verbal humiliation and trash talking
4) Do you have good orgasm control
5) BDSM turn ons and turn offs
6) Do you enjoy ballbusting or cock slapping
7) Does anal play heighten your orgasm

Jerk Off Instruction (FAQ’s)

Facesitting is one of the more erotic fetishes that I offer, if you search the term Facesitting Mistress, Google will return an astonishing 108,000,000 results. So it would be fair to say that sitting on a mans face is a popular fetish. Men will book a face sitting session with sole purpose of having a female sit on their face.

Why Men Love Facesitting?

Relating to my own own personal experiences, and having spoken to clients who love facesitting. I believe for many it is the aspect of control many men enjoy within facesitting. The feeling of humiliation, body worship, intimacy, sex odours and the inability to control your breathing causes a heightened sexual arousal. Many men also seem to enjoy verbal trash talking during a facesitting session, that feeling of being at the complete mercy of their mistress.

Queening Fetish

Facesitting, is also known as queening or kinging. Jay Wiseman’s “Erotic Bondage Handbook,” defines it as “sitting or squatting over the face so that the anal (sphincter) or genital area is pressed against the mans face.” She says “It has the implication of forced oral and can incorporate breath play control and smothering. The experience can be heightened by the dominatrix / mistress trash talking to the submissive while sitting on his face.”

Facesitting Outfit Requests

Over the years I have had many clothing requests for face sitting sessions (Jeans, Leggings, Underwear, Swimsuit, G String, Spandex, Tights, Leather, PVC, Lingerie, Mini Skirt).

Face sitting positions is another important factor e.g forward vs reverse vs the hoover position where the female squats over the mans face. Some men request that their arms be locked using your feet or rope, completely immobilising them.

If there is a particular outfit that you wish me to wear and I do not currently own the item of clothing, you can 1)Purchase the item and bring it with you, please check with me for my size. 2) Include the cost of the item in your deposit, including any postage costs. I will then purchase the item and bring it with me.

Facesitting Fetish

Life events, especially in our early childhood years, seem to have a significant impact on our lives. Over the years I have questioned clients as to how their fetish or fetishes evolved. Many have reminisced of an  earlier childhood experience with a female not necessarily of the same age. To quote a previous clients first hand experience of how his face sitting fetish evolved.

“I was playing with my older female cousin who was 14 years old at the time. My interest in girls had significantly increased since I hit puberty. I remember one day in particular, my cousin was wearing a short skirt and tight top. At times we would play wrestle to see who was the strongest, on this occasion out of know where she flipped me onto my back and sat on my face.

Part of me was in shock, yet incredibly aroused. I could feel the soft skin of her bum and panties touching my face and mouth. Her bum engulfed my face cutting off my air supply and I couldn’t see a thing. I remember the feeling of helplessness, lack of oxygen and her sweet scent”.

I have thought about my first facesitting experience with my cousin countless times, Ever since then, facesitting, ass smothering and ass worship have been my all time favourite fetishes”.

Face Smothering – Breathe Play

Full pressure face sitting can also be referred to as Face Smother or Ass Smothering. The two are very similar in nature, however with face smothering the individual is deprived of oxygen. Such an effect can induce a semi-hallucinogenic state. Combine this with an orgasm, is said to be the equivalent to cocaine.

A 2005 book chapter by Dr Brenda Love (in Russ Kick’s Everything You Know About Sex is Wrong) examined some of the strangest sexual behaviours from around the world and included a short section on queening (face sitting).

She wrote:
“The term queening refers to the European practice of a dominant female (dominatrix) using a man’s head as her throne. The woman sits in one of several positions, either on the side of the man’s head or so that his nose is near her anus with his eyes covered by her genitals. The object of queening is bondage or breath control, not cunnilingus”.

Facesitting Escort

I thought I should mention that while I do offer erotic facesitting, I do not offer full service. Of course you could hire the services of a facesiting escort who provides a GFE experience. Depending on what you wish to experience, facesitting with sex or facesitting with domination will determine your decision.

Facesitting Mistress

Hire the services of a facesitting mistress is a simple process, first fill in my contact form with the relevant information, (Location, Date, Time, Type of Session, etc). All BDSM sessions require a deposit before they are confirmed. You can find my latest tour dates published on my website, Tours and on Session Girls.

I frequent London on a regular basis, every 4 – 6 weeks, staying in Central London. I am also available for BDSM sessions in my home country of Ireland, (Dublin).

Love watching hot, semi naked women wrestle men? If the answer is YES then read on. My name is Sara Lips, wrestler, dominatrix and all round bad ass. When i’m not touring the world, you will find me in one of my favourite places, London. So I thought it only fitting that I should promote my “Mixed Wrestling London” services in case you fancy a tussle.

Mixed Wrestling Videos

If you simply can’t wait to see what I am capable off, scroll down to the bottom of this post where I have added a mixed wrestling video, featuring yours truly. Don’t be alarmed by the screams for “Mercy”, our session doesn’t have to be as extreme.

During my travels across the globe, I have had the opportunity to work with some of the top mixed wrestling producers. Scissor Foxes, Scissor Vixens, Brutal Beauties are just a few of the studios that I have worked with. I highly recommend checking them out, hundreds of hot, muscular women, dominating men.

Mixed Wrestling London

When I travel to London which is generally every 4 – 6 weeks I stay in Central London, W1, W2. I book four star hotels with large rooms, and as of this year travel with a large mat. Some clients depending on the type of session will use the bed, but this is usually for scissoring, fantasy wrestling or pin wrestling.

Most semi competitive wrestling sessions are on the mat, it allows for more freedom of movement and a realistic feel to the session. Please note, that I do not offer full competitive mixed wrestling sessions.

As London is a popular location, I would advice booking early and paying your deposit to secure your booking. I never rush my sessions and leave adequate time between bookings to allow for conversation, relaxation and showers. Read what others are saying about Sara – Session Girls Reviews.

Mixed Wrestling Holds

If you are new to session wrestling, you may be unaware of the variety of mixed wrestling moves. Below are some of the most requested moves during sessions.

(Headscissors, Bodyscissors, Figure4, Grapevine, School girl pins, Sleeper hold, Boston grab, Facesitting, Breast smother, Victory pose).

I am still surprised to this day how many men are into mixed wrestling. We are talking, hardcore fans, who know all the moves, have followed the wrestling scene since early child hood. Can name all the big wrestling stars and snap up any opportunity to tussle with strong, skilled women.

For this reason and not to disappoint my fans, I regularly attend private wrestling coaching with one of the top wrestling coaches in Ireland. When I look back on my early wrestling days, I was always strong, but nowhere near as skilled as I am now.

Today, I’m officially a killer, super strong scissor holds, sleeks moves with knockout chokes that will have you sleeping like a baby in seconds, so BEWARE.

Mixed Wrestling London Booking Form

What about Nude Wrestling?

I know someone will ask, so Ill cover the answer here. While I don’t offer full nude mixed wrestling, I do have an option for Topless wrestling with skimpy G-string. Male clients must wear either, shorts, boxers or underwear that secures your “Man Junk” in place while wrestling.

You might be interested in reading an earlier article I wrote on the topic : Sensual Wrestling Session Explained.

Wrestling Studios in London

I do get asked if I ever visit any of the wrestling studios while I am touring in London. Unfortunately I never get the chance as my time is limited when on tour and I prefer managing my own schedule. I have clients who attend both private mixed wrestling sessions and wrestling studios for events.

Others enjoy the privacy and discretion that a hotel setting brings. Plus the added luxury of a large room, matted area and showers is a big bonus.

Private BDSM Sessions

Due to my time being limited when on tour, I offer private mixed wrestling sessions giving clients the opportunity to book longer sessions (4 hours min). Sessions of this length may incorporate other fetish activities.

If I have peaked your interest, I recommend reading : Booking a BDSM Companion

Mixed Wrestling London

Please note that booked sessions require a deposit, before they are are confirmed. If you would like to know when I’m next in London, check out my Tours page, or Session Girls where I update my travels.

Do you offer any other BDSM services? Yes, head over to my Central London Dominatrix page where you can find a full list of my fetish interests.

Dominatrix Sara Lips

If you have never heard of the fetish small penis humiliation (SPH) your certainly not on your own. I first came across SPH several years ago, after receiving an email request asking if I offered SPH. Initially I thought, what the hell is SPH, but after a quick search on google, my initial thoughts where confirmed. SPH being the abbreviated version for small penis humiliation. My life as a session wrestler / dominatrix is never dull with everyday a perverted adventure.

What is Small Penis Humiliation?

I’m sure you can hazard a guess and you would be right. Some men have a fetish consisting of being ridiculed, mocked and degraded for the size of their penis.

Not all men who have a small penis fetish actually have a micro willy.

SPH Official Definition : A domination fetish where a man is subjected to comments & gestures about the supposed inadequate size of his penis, & because of such his inability to please a woman, which implies his worthlessness as a man. 

What Size is Your Penis?

I think every man at some point in his life has whipped out a tape measure or ruler and measured their penis. Over the years travelling the world I have seen every size of penis imaginable from 1 inch micro cocks to 10 inch monster cocks, my favourite are the thick ones, Mmmm!

It really doesn’t matter the size of the penis, SPH is all about degrading and mocking the submissive for his worthlessness as man. This can be done in various ways, below are examples from previous small penis humiliation sessions.

Penis Size (comparisons)

Submissive is ordered to strip naked and stand in the corner. After some time has passed, submissive is ordered to present his penis for measurement. An overall measurement of the penis is taken while flaccid and at times erect. Various implements are held beside the penis as a size comparison (dildo, condom, cigarette, banana).

Jerk of Instruction (JOI)

Clients who request extreme small penis humiliation may be subjected to both Penis measuring and Jerk of Instruction. Personally for me watching a micro dick jerk off is just embarrassing, but I do love to watch out of sheer amusement.

Submissive is ordered to stand in front of me naked and jerk off to my instructions. Verbal abuse, humiliating comments and degradation follow. For men who have a small penis fetish being forced to jerk off their pindick in the presence of dominant female is the ultimate shame.

Online Small Penis Humiliation

With most of the population connected, its not surprising that male domination has a lucrative online presence. Many mistresses offering paid domination services, via webcam, face time, skype, text and email.

The penis rating system, a paid service where men send a pic of their penis asking for a rating along with objectifying comments. With a recent fluctuation in email requests for Rate My Small Penis”. I have decided to offer small dick domination service, available online for any submissive who is not able to met in person. Details of this service can be found below.

Small Penis Mockery

Terms frequently used during Small Penis Humiliation include: Baby Cock, Baby Dick, Button Dick, Dicklet, Inch Worm, Little Chad, Little Dick, Little Pecker, Little Penis, Maggot Dick, Micro Penis, Minidick, Needle Dick, One Inch Wonder, Pindick, Runt Dick, Small Dick Man, Tiny Cock, Tiny Dick, Tit Dick.

There are even more degrading phrases that can be found in the Urban Dictionary : Small Penis Humiliation. My favourite is Needle Dick, who says words can’t hurt. Did you know that, as of recently a small penis emoji that has been released. Not only can mistresses degrade their slaves with words but now with emoji’s.

small penis humiliation emoji

Cruel, Mmm, NO. Remember these types of men get off being ridiculed about the size of their penis, I don’t judge. I fulfil mens fantasies regardless of how strange they may seem to others.

Extreme Small Penis Humiliation

SPH has a close cousin, CUCKHOLDING, both are closely related as both fetishes objectify the size of the mans penis. Cucking is a more extreme version of small penis humiliation involving the submissive’s partner having intercourse with another well endowed man (bull).

There are a great number of men who enjoy the fetish cuckholding. I don’t want to delve to far into the topic as I might write a separate article devoted to the topic.

Booking a Small Dick Humiliation Session

If you are interested in booking a SPH session, please use my contact form filling in the relevant info. Don’t be afraid to expand on the type of session you wish to experience. Remember to check out my latest tours, alternatively when i’m not travelling, you can find me for most part in London, Dublin and Ireland.

Rate my Small Penis – Online Domination

Purchase an amazon gift voucher fill in the relevant fields using the example voucher below. Upon receipt of your gift voucher, I will request a picture of your penis for evaluation. This will involve an overall “Rate My Small Penis” score from 1 – 10 including my own personal opinions.

In an earlier article I wrote on sensual wrestling I touched on whether there are advantages to booking an escort who offers full service. Today I want to discuss hiring the services of a BDSM companion, rather than an escort. You might ask yourself is this not just an escort. Mmm, not quiet the same, let me explain.

When a women advertises herself as an escort, most people assume that she is offering sex. When in actual fact, escorts are paid for their time not sex. That time can be spent however the escort and client wish.

BDSM Companion

Companion, a person with whom one spends a lot of time or with whom one travels. The context of an escort and companion are very similar, society has associated sex with the word Escort. A companion on the other hand is someone who you wish to spend extended periods of time with. Or someone hired to help another. Words carry power, by simply changing the term, escort to companion, suddenly sex is not so evident.

Dominatrix and Companion

Due to the complexity of the session requests I fulfil during my tours and the recurring bookings I receive. I like to think of myself as not just a session wrestler, dominatrix, but a companion. Yes, guys book my services to be beat up, dominated, scissored and even kicked in the balls. But at times there is a connection, something shared, a new experience, a great conversation or a simple endorphins rush.

Sara’s Companionship

I’m not one for being spoiled or asking for handouts, its simply not how I was brought up. I earn my money by delivering top notch bdsm sessions across the globe.

I won’t say I have never been spoiled during my travels, I have eaten in some lovely restaurants, enjoyed drinks and great conversation with clients in the past. Unfortunately my time is limited while on tour and although I receive invites for dinner, drinks etc, most of the time I am unable to oblige.

Booking a BDSM Companion

After much thought, I have decided to extend my services for those who wish to book longer bookings (private) with Sara. BDSM bookings (half day) would be outside the scope of my normal tours, therefor giving me the time to focus on our session.

Bookings of this nature tend to incorporate more than just acting out our fantasies and desires. Time constraints are removed when booking longer sessions, giving both parties the chance to delve deeper into your kinks and desires.

BDSM Session Example

Half Day Booking (4.5 hours)

3:00 Drinks, Conversation

3:15 Scissor Domination/Wrestling

4:00 Body Worship / Massage

4:30 Break (coffee, drinks)

4:45 Ass Worship w/Breath Play

5:15 Bondage w/ Tease

5:45 Break (clothing change)

6:00 Dinner, drinks

Please note : Meals, drinks or other activities agreed upon must be incorporated into the half day booking, unless booking time is extended.


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Half day session bookings do not include, flights or accommodation. Deposits are required for all bookings, please read my testimonials on the quality of service I deliver. A full list of fetishes I cater for can be found on my London Dominatrix page. If there are fetishes that are not mentioned on my list, please just ask, as I do try to accommodate all reasonable requests.

Sara Lips BDSM Companion

Previous in an earlier article I delved into the world of foot fetishes and foot worship. While closely related, trampling is another fetish that involves the feet. It surprises me how popular foot fetishes are. Accordingly to my Google analytics, foot worship London, foot fetish and foot domination are some of the most popular search terms. Foot trampling domination is the topic for today’s article, a fetish that I offer as one of my specialities.

What is Foot Trampling?

While the explanations from both Wikipedia and Urban dictionary do explain briefly what trampling involves, there is so much more to this strange, but unique fetish. Trampling takes on many forms and can mean different things to each person.

Wikipedia, “Trampling refers to the sexual activity that involves being trampled underfoot by another person or persons”

Urban Dictionary, “Standing or walking on one’s body, especially the face and sexual organs as part of an extreme foot fetish.

Below are my own interpretations of trampling sub categories’ based on personal experiences with clients who enjoy foot trampling.

Trampling the Pain Junkie

Trampling as you can imagine can cause pain, and is closely related to sadomasochism. Individuals who love feet and trampling, will often request that footwear (shoes, boots or high heels) rather than bare feet, be worn, for the reasons of inflicting more pain. I have refereed to these types before as “Pain Junkies” sexual arousal through pain, heightened by the presence of beautiful women (mistress).

Foot Domination Trampling

For others trampling has a different meaning, for the submissive man, foot trampling relates to submission, obedience and worship. The ultimate show of admiration, as to lie under the feet of their mistress. Sessions of this nature can involve the submissive being trampled, stomped, kicked, choked and even used as a human foot rest by their mistress. Pain may be also inflicted should their mistress feel that it is warranted.

Trampling Feet and Sexual Arousal

Some men have such a fascination with feet that any activity, trampling, foot worship, foot domination causes sexual arousal.

“Scientist Vilayanur Ramachandran, concluded through experimentation that sections of the brain, which are associated with feet, are positioned next to the sections in the brain associated with genitalia. Ramachandran speculated that those who are turned on by feet may be experiencing sexual stimulation, because the wires in their brain linked to the feet and the genitals have become mixed up”.

Vilayanur Subramanian Ramachandran (neuroscientist)

For individuals with such an admiration for feet. Sessions requests can at times involve a mixture of foot trampling, and foot domination. Painful trampling in high heels, changing to foot domination where the individual is stomped, choked and gagged using the feet.

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Giantess Trample

The fetish Macrophilia translates to a lover of large. Men who have this type of fetish enjoy trampling sessions with women who are particularly tall or have freakishly large feet. Domination, degradation, helplessness and feeling small under a Giant (giantesses) feet.

Being only 5 foot 6 inches tall, this sub category of trampling doesn’t apply to me as much as others.

My stats 75kg, 166lbs, feet size UK 6, EU 40, US 7

The Human Carpet

An interesting article I came across featured in the NY Times tells the story of a 48 year old immigrant called Georgeo T, nick name “The Human Carpet”. Georgeo’s love for trampling started in his early childhood years where he remembers” I loved to have weights on me” and “I like when my cats would walk on me”.

Georgeo makes his living from trampling, charging two hundred dollars per gig. Although now a paid hobby, Georgeo insists that he just loves to be trampled. He is regularly booked at fetish clubs where he rolls himself up in an old carpet and invites patrons to walk, stomp and stand on him. The more people that walk on me, the higher they jump, the more enjoyable the experience, he explains.

Sara’s Thoughts on Trampling

My personal experiences have lead me to believe that while there are several sub categories of trampling. Most foot trampling sessions for me involve both trampling and foot domination. Session requests vary with men wanting nothing more than to feel the weight of you bearing down on their chest. Kneeling, sitting and stomping are very popular.

I have previously performed foot trampling sessions involving foot gagging. My feet forced into the mouth of the client, at times using my toes to stretch the mouth open, while verbally abusing my victim.

Clients will also request that smelly socks or nylons be worn during the session. I remember wearing a pair of socks every time I went to the gym for two weeks. I placed them in a sealed bag and brought them with me to wear. At the end of the session he asked if he could have them, which of course I obliged.

Some clients also wish to be naked during a trampling session and enjoy an element of light ball busting. As I mention in an earlier article I love Ball Busting, so torturing a mans cock and balls using my feet is somewhat erotic.

Book a Foot Trampling Session

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Before you commence reading my latest article, I want you to ask yourself a question. Are you a breast or ass man? Maybe your conflicted, and love both. Would you hire the services of an ass worship escort? solely for the purpose of worshipping her exquisite ass.

Over the past few years travelling the world I have catered for many fetishes. Some men, generally submissive types, love nothing more than to worship their mistresses ass, body or feet. Men who have this type of fetish worship certain parts of a females anatomy. Usually the body part that causes the most arousal will be the centre of their admiration.

Ass Worship Definition

Ass worship is a type of worship for those with an ass fetish. It is also a submissive worship predominantly in a Sub relationship. Ass worship is performed by burying the face into the luscious ass cheeks of the female. The act of ass worship is generally performed with a thong or pants on, but the female may also be naked. There are several popular ass worship positions which I have listed below.

Ass Worship Positions

Against the wall : This is where the female stands close to a wall with her back arched and her ass pert. The male drops to his knees and pushes his face into the females ass cheeks worshipping her ass.

Face Sitting : The female can either squat down over the man face or rest on her knees while she leans back sitting on the mans face. This position is also called ass smothering due to the females rear cutting of the mans oxygen supply.

The Sandwich : As the name suggest, the female lies down onto the bed face down with her ass perked up into the air. The man then bury’s his face into the mistresses ass cheeks creating the filling for the sandwich.

The Prayer : One of my favourite, the female sits on a chair with most of her ass hanging off the chair. The man kneels down into a prayer position and leans forward placing his face deep into the females ass checks.

Ass Worship Escort

The practice of ass worship can cause serious sexual arousal to the male.  If you are looking for an extreme ass worship session where there are few limitations, it is important you discuss everything prior to booking to prevent any miscommunication. Some session girls will perform ass worship and face sitting, others not. Many girls will also have there own set of boundaries e.g as to whether they wear spandex, lingerie or perhaps nothing. All is dependent on the girl in question, so remember to to be respectful of boundaries guys!

Extreme Ass Worship

Some men require that extra level of depravity. They love nothing more than burying there head between a pair of naked ass cheeks, pressing their mouth tight up to the females sphincter. Men who love extreme ass worship thrive on sniffing, caressing and rimming the butt hole of the female.

This is defined as Analingus – aka rimming is an extreme form of ass worship where not only the ass but sphincter are worshipped. Men who request this type of ass worship session will spend a lengthy amount of time licking, tonguing and cleaning their mistresses asshole.

Some dominatrixes will offer this type of hardcore ass worshipping, but check before you book to avoid disappointment. You may be surprised to know that many females actually enjoy this type of oral, so your mistress or dominatrix may get sexually turned on by your efforts to worship her ass.

What Rimming Feels Like For a Women

Whilst searching the internet, for research on thoughts of Ass Worship, here is what one particular women had to say about it.”I really like it. There are a lot of nerve endings there, and people hold a lot of tension there too, and when the sphincter muscles relax it’s a whole level of relaxation and openness that I hardly ever get to feel. But also, it’s SO up-close and personal, with the giver’s face and tongue right there, it also gives me an unprecedented feeling of being accepted 100%. And that’s fabulous. I fucking loved it. So good”

Other search terms that are popular when searching for a mistress who offers ass worship sessions are (ass worship escort, face sitting mistress, ass worship dominatrix, domme escort, ass smothering). Then simply add you location to the search term to bring up the results, ie UK, London, Scotland.

Interested in booking an ass worship session with myself, please use my contact form. You can check out my latest tour dates on my tours page. For a full list of all fetishes I offer, head over to my London Dominatrix page. Please note that I am primarily a session girl and dominatrix, not escort and this article is write purely to help define better the ins and outs of ass worship.