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Tie and Tease Massage

If you derive enjoyment from being bound, restrained, and experiencing the sensual touch of a strong, dominant woman, then a tie and tease massage is for you. As a femdom Mistress, I offer an extensive range of fetishes, and tie and tease happens to be a highly sought-after BDSM fetish among my male clientele.

What is a Tie and Tease Massage

During a tie and tease massage, your hands and occasionally your feet are restrained, restricting your ability to move. Once bound, you are tantalised, caressed, fondled, and continuously brought to the edge of climax. This particular fetish, known as edging, closely relates to tie and tease.

Orgasms are typically incredibly intense and mind-blowing due to the prolonged stimulation, which builds up sexual arousal. On occasion, orgasm may be entirely withheld, leaving you in a state of sexual frustration. This is usually at the client’s request, as they derive pleasure from a combination of bondage and being denied climax.

Tie and Tease in BDSM

This type of fetish centres around trust and vulnerability, as individuals willingly allow themselves to be bound and restricted. Before a tie and tease massage begins, boundaries are established through open communication, and a safe word may be agreed upon for the individual to use if they wish to stop.

Tie and tease typically involves restraining the wrists or ankles using items like handcuffs, ropes, or bondage tape. For those seeking a more intense experience, full restraint along with a blindfold can heighten sensations and increase arousal.

There are two levels of intensity in tie and tease. The light level includes gentle touch, body-to-body contact, and focuses on sensuality and eroticism without any pain. However, for those seeking a more intense encounter, the hard level may involve activities such as slapping, cock and ball torture, face sitting, spitting, nipple torture, and trampling.

Only an experienced mistress can seamlessly combine multiple fetishes into a captivating experience.

Tie and Tease London

Depending on who you book your tie and tease massage with (massage therapist, mistress, escort) can very much influence the experience. I am obviously biased, but an experienced tie and tease mistress is the ultimate combination of power and beauty.

Mistresses generally don’t offer sex, but are masters of erotica and are very well versed at pushing your limitations. As a bonus they offer lots of additional fetishes that will blow your mind, (tie and tease, edging, jerk off instruction, orgasm denial) are all closely related.

Additional fetishes that merge beautifully with tie and tease london are facesitting, ass worship, foot worship, breath play. Check out my London mistress page where you can find a comprehensive list of all the fetishes I offer. I travel all over the world offering BDSM sessions, find out where I’m visiting next on my tour page.

You can also follow me on Twitter @misssaralips, where you can see my latest photos, tour dates, blog posts and more.

Your First Mixed Wrestling Session

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I’m rewriting an older article for beginners who are considering booking a mixed wrestling session. It’s been five years since I entered the world of session wrestling, a lot has changed. I’m a far superior, diverse, skilled female wrestler in comparison to when I first started.

Of course, I have my loyal fan base to thank for supporting me in my early years. Five years on and hundreds of mixed wrestling sessions later, I still to this day, remember my first.

Most first timers after their session, enjoy the experience so much, regret not having plucked up the courage sooner. I hope you find my beginners guide to booking your first wrestling session helpful.

Sara Lips Wrestling is comprehensive website for men looking to hire the services of a session wrestler.

What Are Session Girls?

Also referred to as session wrestlers are private wrestlers for hire. Session wrestlers can be male or female, although the industry is predominantly dominated by women. For most men, engaging in mixed wrestling sessions, is a form of sexual fantasy.

Session wrestling doesn’t involve SEX, though it can be sensual and erotic. Some men due to the body to body contact can become aroused and develop an erection. This is perfectly normal and most session girls will not be offended.

Men who book a mixed wrestling session enjoy being dominated by a stronger, more skilled female opponent. Sessions can be athletic, playful, semi competitive, competitive or fantasy. Please note that very few session girls, including myself offer Full Competitive Wrestling, due to the increased risk of injury.

Wrestling session are booked on an hourly basis, discounts may be offered when multiple hours are booked. Always check with your service provider.

Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive

Session Wrestlers Services

You may not be aware unless you’re a fan of wrestling, that, there are various wrestling styles. Session girls who advertise their services will list the styles of wrestling among other fetishes that they offer. Generally most services that are offered stay within the context of wrestling.

Services include, but are not limited to, (semi competitive wrestling, fantasy wrestling, pin wrestling, scissoring, pro wrestling, submission wrestling, mixed martial arts, catch wrestling, muscle worship).

Session wrestlers range from amatuer, semi professional or bodybuilders. Each girls level of experience will determine the styles of wrestling she offers. You should also be aware that some girls, not all, will offer nudity, topless and sensual sessions. These types of services are deemed as extras and are generally not included within the hourly session rate.

Sara Lips Session Wrestler Profile

Wrestling Style Descriptions

Pin Wrestling – is form of wrestling where the opponent’s shoulders or scapulae (shoulder blades) must touch the wrestling mat for an allocated amount of time.

Mixed Wrestling – encompasses all types of wrestling styles where two competitors of the opposite sex wrestle.

Fantasy wrestling – involves role-playing in which storylines and at times characters are created. This assists the client escape the constraints of reality even if it’s only for a short time.

Semi Competitive Wrestling – This style of wrestling allows the client to put up some resistance, testing the strength and skills of his female competitor without the intensity or risk of injury of a competitive match.

Scissoring – a widely requested wrestling move, where the female wraps her legs around her opponent and literally squeezes the life out of them, (figure 4, headscissor, reverse headscissor, body scissors) are all popular scissor holds.

Mixed Martial Arts – also referred to as MMA is a full-contact combat sport that allows wrestling, punching, grappling, choke holds and arm locks. Some session girls are versed in martial arts and wrestling.

Pro Wrestling – is a theatrical wrestling performance, wrestling moves include, (grapevine, pile driver, cobra clutch, fish hook, full nelson, camel clutch, boston crab). We all remember WWE, well, that’s pro wrestling.

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Selecting a Session Wrestler

Obviously after reading this article I hope that you choose myself for your first mixed wrestling session. But I understand if you prefer a different type of physique. Each session girl is unique in their (looks, body type, skills, specialties).

Mixed wrestling sessions can be made up of various elements depending on who you session with. I recommend tasters sessions, for first timers ,which are great if you have no previous wrestling experience. Tasters sessions incorporate several wrestling styles of your choosing.

There are numerous women of great talent who offer mixed wrestling sessions. Many session girls will advertise on one or more of the following directories, Wb270, Bad Kity and Session Girls.

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Booking a Mixed Wrestling Session

Below are the key points to successfully booking your first mixed wrestling session.

1) Female session wrestlers receive a lot of emails and unfortunately do not have time for irrelevant chatter with no substance.
2) Deposits are required before sessions are confirmed, this demonstrates your commitment and assists the girl in planning her tour.
3) It is vital in your first correspondence, to mention the (Country, Date, Time, Fetish Requests) for your session.
4) Always check the session girls website for her latest tour dates, fetish specialties, stats and rates before initiating contact. Most session girls advertise their website and social media channels on Session Girls.

5) While we understand that you may be nervous and have lots of questions. Do your research first and make sure you are ready to book before emailing a session girl. Wasting a girls time, refusing to pay a deposit, not showing up for your session, will only result in you being blacklisted.

6) Always be polite and respectful when emailing, write a draft email first and check that you have added all requested information. If you don’t get a response, wait, session girls tour regularly, so it can longer to receive a response.

7) Never barter session rates, some girls will offer 30 min sessions, but this entirely dependant on the girl.

Roleplay Kinks and Fetish Ideas

Sara Lips Session Wrestler

For me, a great wrestling session starts with good communication. I value our time together and take my business seriously. Every session booked has its own detailed notes on, (outfits, wrestling types, fetishes, roleplays, dislikes, injuries, date, time).

Over the years, I have found that starting sessions with a brief chat, helps to calm nerves and clarify session requests. For me, it is highly important that you feel safe, when handing over control, to me.

There are instances as part of a roleplay, that the client be controlled, dominated from the start. However, safe words, likes and dislikes have been discussed beforehand. I do not recommend this type of session for a novice.

Sexually Dominant Women

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Over the last half century there has been a significant shift in the sexes. The days of the downtrodden women are a thing of the past. Sexually dominant women are more evident now than ever before. Next time your online, search the phrase “Mistress” followed by your country, (Mistress London) for example.

You will be amazed by how many women are advertising their services as dominatrixes. Personally I think, a lack of opportunities and a downturn in our economy, has played its part. More and more women are turning to sex work to make a living.

On the other had you could argue the point, that there are more sexually dominant women today, due to the increase in demand.

Men love to feel the power of these alpha females, so much so, that they become icons, role models, goddesses. In the BDSM world, the term (mistresses, dominatrix, pro domme, humiliatrix, domina) are commonly used to describe these women.

Dominatrix is the feminine form of the Latin dominator and was originally used in a non-sexual sense. The term dominatrix is sometimes used to describe a professional dominant who is paid to engage in BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism) with a submissive.

Female Dominatrix

Considering the varying types of sex work that is available, women will tend to choose either (escorting, porn, domination). You might ask yourself why this is relevant, well, women who choose to become a dominatrix regardless of economic constraints, must enjoy dominating men.

Escorting and porn are the easier two options and can pay considerably more depending on the girls looks and figure. Its my personal opinion that In today’s modern society, women want to dominate men.

I myself am a testament of a strong dominant female who makes a living traveling the world dominating men. I cater for a wide range of male fetishes, fantasies and role plays.

Considering the level of detail and thought that go into some of the roleplays I act out during sessions. Escorting or porn would definitely be the easier option. But, if i’m honest, I thoroughly enjoy dominating men.

Men love, adore and appreciate strong, sexually empowered women which is pleasurable.

Book a Sexually Dominant Women

BDSM Domination

As I mentioned earlier there are now more men than ever before who fantasise about strong dominant women. I started working as a session wrestler / dominatrix over 5 years ago. Since then I have noticed a significant increase in the amount of women joining the BDSM scene.

You only have to check the NEW GIRL section on session girls. Women are empowered by this new age, confidence, assertiveness, strength and dominance are common traits of the dominant women.

Session Girls Sara Lips Profile

If you’re new to the world of BDSM and looking to hire the services of either a session wrestler or dominatrix. You might be interested in an earlier I wrote on my Top 15 Sexual Fetishes where I explain in more detail what each fetish involves.

Session wrestlers and dominatrixes, although different, both dominate men. The types of services and fetishes they offer vary, below I have listed the most popular fetishes requested.

Note that some women like myself offer a wide range of fetishes depending on their experience.

BDSM Fetishes

Pro Wrestling, Submission Wrestling, Pin Wrestling, Breath Play, Mixed Martial Arts, Jiu-Jitsu, Grappling, Fantasy Boxing, Tickle Wrestling, Scissoring, Lift and Carry, Modeling, Belly Punching, Medical Play, Facesitting, Foot Trampling, Corporal Punishment, Semi-Competitive Wrestling, Foot Worship, Chastity Control, Ball Busting, Strapon Play, Bondage, Sissy Training, Roleplay.

If you find yourself overwhelmed by choice, I recommend reading an earlier article, roleplay kinks and fetish ideas. Where I provide examples of how either a singular or multiple fetishes can be incorporated into a roleplay scenario.

Sexually Dominant Women

Since time began, men have been in control. Today’s geneticists report that the Y (male) chromosome has been degenerating for centuries. Whereas the X (female) chromosome is becoming stronger. It is predicted that in 3.5 million years the Y chromosome responsible for male development and reproduction, will simply die out.

The male chromosome is in a downward spiral and the female chromosome is in an upward climb that is being reflected in our society today. Media, education, business and sex work, we are experiencing a shift from a male dominated to a female dominated civilisation. The future is already written in genetic code, and this reality is everywhere we look.

Alpha Female Traits

1) Independent, financially driven, focused on their careers.
2) Cultivates a life she enjoys.
3) Never embarrassed to ask for what she wants, including sex.
4) Does not subscribe to outdated sexist paradigms.
5) Alpha females are a no-nonsense woman, supremely confident and self-assured.
6) Calls people out when they mistreated her.
7) Many dominant women out-earn their male counterparts.
8) Dominant females do not compete for attention.
9) Invests in herself and her future.
10) Can be intimidating to others, but lives her life regardless.

Sexual Domination In The Bedroom

You might be wondering as your reading this article if Sara is as dominant in the bedroom as she is during sessions. To answer briefly, in comparison to when I was a young girl, YES, I am more dominant now, I say what I like and ensure my needs are fulfilled.

More women today are openly speaking about what they enjoy during sex. Times have changed, women are now freer to assert their dominance over men in all aspects of life, including the bedroom.

Some men have difficulty accepting this change in gender roles, where a man is supposed to be in charge. The world is ever changing, nothing stands still, women today enjoy change and are the ones cracking the whip in the bedroom.

Facesitting Mistress

Book a BDSM Session

Do you fantasies about spending time with a sexually dominant women. Well, in the world of BDSM you can, there are thousands of women who advertise their services for the sole purpose of dominating men.

Interested in booking Sara? First, check out my latest tours on my tour page and fill out the relevant information on my contact page. When I’m not on tour, you will find me regularly in London and Ireland, (Dublin, Belfast).

If your a beginner looking to book your first session, I highly recommend reading my Top 15 Sexual Fetishes that I offer. Please note that DEPOSITS are required no exceptions, read what others are saying about Sara Lips (reviews).

Top 15 Sexual Fetishes

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Being a worldwide wrestling dominatrix has opened my eyes to the vast variety of kinks that men request on a daily basis. Even now I am still dumbfounded by some of the fetishes asked for. Below are my “Top 15 Sexual Fetishes”, if after reading the list you find that your kink is not listed, doesn’t mean I don’t offer it.

You can always contact me using my contact form and submit your request there. Please note, DEPOSITS must be paid before any booking is confirmed. I am non judgmental, professional, with years of experience as a wrestler, dominatrix.

Read what others are saying about Sara on Session Girls – Reviews.

1) Ass Worship

Top search result on Google for the key phrase Ass Worship Escort which is an earlier article I wrote on the topic. Men love the female booty and will book a session for the sole purpose of worshiping the ass of a strong dominant women.

Ass worship sessions involve, caressing, touching, licking, sniffing and smothering. Sessions may also entail an element of facesitting, face smothering which are closely related to ass worship.

I highly recommend reading my earlier article which goes into a lot more detail on the various ass worship positions (the sandwich, the prayer, against the wall).

2) Ball Busting

One of my favourite fetishes, I love busting balls. I’ve often wondered WHY anyone would pay me to kick them in the nuts, but men do, and love it. The harder you kick, squeeze, punch, slap, the “HARDER” their erection. I guess everyone is wired differently.

Definitely not for everyone, but popular all the same and one that I get great pleasure from. If you have an interest in ball busting but have no previous experience, please remember to mention this in email communications.

Ball busting, also referred to as cock and ball torture (CBT) can be tailored to suit the individual’s experience.

Ball Busting Dominatrix

3) Strapon

Due to the amount of requests I have received for strapon, also referred to as (pegging), I am now offering strapon sessions. Please note that strapon sessions are only available in the UK and Europe. Some experienced men choose to bring their own strapon dildo during sessions.

The male G-Spot is found under a man’s bladder and is accessed through the anus. Stimulating the G-spot through anal penetration can induce mind blowing orgasms.

It’s no wonder then that so many men now request strapon, anal play as their go to sexual fetish. I travel with various sizes of strapon dildos for such occasions.

Men who have erectile dysfunction or difficulty maintaining an erection can reach orgasm by stimulating the G-spot.

Top 15 Sexual Fetishes

4) Facesitting

Facesitting, also referred to as stinkface, queening or face smothering is a sexual fetish where the dominant female sits on the mans face. This type of sexual act for most men is extremely erotic as the females genitalia and anus are pressed up against the mouth and nose of the male.

Various outfits can be worn to include but not limited to: (jeans, thong, panties, leggings, pvc, stockings, leather). There can also be an element of bondage during a facesitting session where the submissives hands are tied behind his back leaving him at the mercy of his mistress.

Facesitting while similar to face smothering does not restrict the person’s oxygen to the same extent as a face smothering session. For many men facesitting demonstrates dominance and female superiority.

A very popular and regularly booked sexual fetish.

Facesitting Mistress | Queening Fetish

5) Scissoring

This particular fetish should come with a “WARNING” especially if your booking a scissoring session with Sara. My scissors are some of the strongest in the session world. Scissor holds include, (figure 4, reverse scissors, head scissors, body scissors, reverse figure 4).

Scissoring is a popular fetish where the female wraps her legs around her victim in varying positions and crushes them. Many men love the feeling and can become sexually aroused by being trapped between a pair of strong, beautiful, muscular legs.

If your that guy then i’m your girl, can you handle Sara’s Lethal Scissors? You can watch me in scissoring action at Scissor Foxes – Sara Lips

6) Foot Worship

There are a staggering amount of men who love female feet, an earlier article Foot Worship Explained is my top result on my website, Sara Lips Wrestling. Men who have a foot fetish are fanatical, they know exactly what turns them on.

Some will request that you wear (stinky socks, stockings, shoes, sneakers, boots) others love the touch and feel of your bare feet.

Other men wish to be dominated by your feet, (trampled, suffocated, smothered, kicked, gagged, stomped) all using the feet.

If your a hardcore foot domination fan, you will probably enjoy a video I shoot with Brian from Fet Loving, Muscle Girl Testical Crush.

Foot Trampling Domination

7) Mixed Wrestling

Most wrestling events involve two members of the same sex wrestling for a title. Mixed wrestling involves the opposite sex, male vs female, (fantasy, semi competitive, sensual, pro wrestling) are all types of wrestling that occur within the session wrestling scene.

Mixed wrestling sessions requests can include roleplays, outfits, and a individuals favourite wrestling or scissor holds. I offer all types of mixed wrestling listed above, accept FULL COMPETITIVE, due to the increased risk of injury.

Sara Lips, wrestling stats: Height: 5ft 6inches, Weight: 172lbs, Thighs: 25in, Biceps: 14in, Skill Set: Trained. Over the past two years I have been training with one of Ireland’s top wrestling coaches.

Wrestling articles you may be interested in Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive and Sensual Wrestling Explained

Top 15 Sexual Fetishes

8) Small Penis Humiliation

It may seem strange that some men wish to be ridiculed, belittled and humiliated for the size of their penis. The reality, small penis humiliation, abbreviated to (SPH) is real, men get off having a dominate women mock their dick size.

Ironically not all men who book an SPH session have a small penis!

Sessions involve verbal humiliation, (pin dick, tiny dick, pencil cock), penis comparisons using objects and imagery. I also offer a service included in small penis humiliation sessions, “Rate My Penis” where I score your penis size out of 10.

SPH is also offered online for those individuals who cannot met me in person. Please refer to the article link below for more details on this service.

Small Penis Humiliation | Rate My Penis

9) Breath Play

A unique fetish that can encompass multiple fetishes, breath play is fetish where the victims breathing is restricted causing oxygen deprivation.

Depriving the body of oxygen can cause feelings of euphoria, dizziness, and lowered inhibition. There have been numerous deaths associated with self asphyxiation for heighten sexual arousal.

During a breath play sessions breathing may be restricted by using a variety of body parts and fetishes including but not limited to, (breast smothering, ass smothering, choking, foot gagging, hand over mouth (HOM), scissor holds).

Breath play should be used safely with an experienced dominatrix.

Breath Control Play Techniques

10) Cross Dressing

Certain men enjoy wearing items of females clothing during a session. Dressing like a woman is a dramatic, yet essentially reasonable way of getting closer to the experiences of women.

Men who book a crossdressing session may also request that they are dominated, while wearing female clothing (strapon, anal play, humiliation, small penis humiliation, jerk off instruction) are all popular fetishes for men who have a crossdressing fetish.

Interested in booking a session? Please note that many BDSM sessions incorporate more than one fetish. Although I am outlining my Top 15 Sexual Fetishes on an individual basis, you can select multiple fetishes that you may wish to experience during our session.

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11) Muscle Worship

Also referred to as body worship is the act of worshipping a strong, muscular women. Men who have a muscle worship fetish become sexually aroused at the look and feel of a females muscles. Bodybuilders, fitness competitors and female wrestlers are all subjects of men’s admiration.

Muscle worship sessions may involve, (touching, kissing, posing, oiling, massaging). Sessions may also incorporate feats of strength, wrestling or scissor holds where the females muscular physique and strength can be admired in action.

While I don’t see myself as a traditional bodybuilder, men love my big thighs, calves, glutes and biceps. Please note that, I DO NOT OFFER FULL SERVICE.

Muscle Worship Fetish Explained

12) Bondage

Another fetish that merges beautifully with others is the fetish bondage, below are examples from previous sessions.

1) Hands are are tied behind back during a facesitting session. This greatly restricts the victims movement creating a element of fear and panic as they have no control over the outcome.

2) Hogtie, both hands and feet are tied rendering the subject immobile and helpless. From this point the victim may be subjected to any other requested fetish.

3) Subject is tied to a chair naked, hands and feet bound, mouth gagged. Again this leaves the victim completely helpless and at the mercy of his mistress aka, Sara Lips.

Bondage is not for the novice, safe words must be agreed on before a session commences. I do not intentionally offer KNOCKOUTS, safety is paramount during sessions.

Top 15 Sexual Fetishes

13) Jerk Off Instruction

During Jerk Off instruction, I will instruct you how to masturbate. You will follow my every command, how hard, how soft, how fast to jerk off. When I instruct you to STOP you will cease all actions and wait further command.

There are two main types of jerk off instruction: 1) Encouragement, where I provide positive reinforcement helpling you to orgasm to please me. 2) Humiliation, this where I degrad you, prolong your arousal and extend foreplay, bringing you to the edge time and time again. Ultimately I will decide if you are given permission to orgasm.

Jerk Off Instruction vs Orgasm Denial

14) Roleplay

Sexual fetishes are a complicated woven web, influenced by events throughout our lives. It’s not surprising that roleplaying plays such an important part of sexual fetishes. Roleplay encompases every fetish listed and not listed on my “top 15 sexual fetishes”.

Over half of all session requests I receive have an element of roleplay incorporated into the session.

Roleplay, a fetish in which either one character or multiple assume the roles of alternative persona’s. Sessions involving roleplay may use (props, outfits, scripts, locations) to help create the illusion of an altered reality.

Popular role playing scenarios: (femme fatale, personal trainer, school girl, catwoman, superwomen, girlfriend) are just some characters that may be incorporated into roleplay sessions.

Sara Lips has her own alter ego (Princess Pain), her character, devoid of all emotion and empathy, enjoys inflicting pain on others, once unleashed BEWARE.

15) Humiliation

The fetish humiliation is more popular with a select group of males known as submissive or slaves. These type of men wish to serve their mistress and enjoy being humiliated, degraded and abused.

1) Verbal Humiliation: degradation, verbal abuse are used to belittle and make the subject feel worthless.

2) Physical Humiliation: anal penetration, spitting, spanking, slapping, whipping, orgasm denial, facesitting, body worship human furniture, servitude

During sessions a combination of verbal and physical humiliation can be merged with any other fetish listed. For example some men may request verbal abuse, hair pulling, nipple torture and breath play during a facesitting session.

Small Penis Humiliation, Jerk Off Instruction, Mixed Wrestling, Foot Domination and Roleplay are other examples where humiliation may be added.

Fetishes and Kinks

I hope after reading this article on my top 15 sexual fetishes you have a better understanding on the various kinks I offer. While the description for each fetish may be a brief synonyms, I have included links to more in depth articles on the subject.

Interested in booking a session, remember to check out my Tours Page for my latest travel dates. When i’m not on tour you can find me for most part in London, Dublin, Ireland.

I am also available for longer private sessions, more details can be found in an earlier post, BDSM Companion. Have a question? most common answers can be found on my Frequently Asked Questions page.

Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive

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Session wrestling has given me the opportunity to travel the world and broaden my horizons. Although I now offer a wider range of fetishes than when I first started, mixed wrestling (male vs female) is still one of my most requested fetishes. Today’s blog post primarily focuses on the differences between “Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive” based on my own personal views as a female session wrestler.

Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive

While there are other forms of wrestling (bondage, erotic, semi comp, competitive). I have singled out Fantasy and Semi Competitive due to the confusion between these two fetishes.

First let’s break down the true meaning of the terms fantasy and semi competitive to better understand how they relate to wrestling.

Fantasy wrestling: the opposite of reality, a strong addiction to something that is not real. In the realm of fantasy wrestling, roleplaying, wrestling characters and storylines play a large part in creating the fantasy, allowing the person’s imagination the freedom to create their ultimate reality, even if its only for a short time.

Semi Competitive: allows the client to provide some resistance, but not enough to try to win the match. The emphasis is not on winning but fun. Physical contact and holds are more important than who wins the match. Usually the guy is defensive in his style of wrestling, while the girl is offensive, trying to put him into various wrestling holds. This style of wrestling allows the client to test the strength and skills of his female competitor without the intensity or injury risk of a competitive match.

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Male vs Female Wrestling

Now that we have determined the true meaning of fantasy wrestling vs semi competitive. What is the confusion between these two fetishes? I’m really not sure, for some unknown reason men at times interpret both fantasy wrestling and semi competitive as FULL COMPETITIVE. Even though most female wrestlers clearly state on their websites and in email communication that they DON’T offer competitive wrestling due to the increased risk of injury.

I think it’s fair to say that most female session wrestlers have experienced a “BAD Wrestling Session” at some stage throughout their career, including myself. If a girl has a bad experience with a client and feels her safety was compromised, this will often result in the girl reporting the guy on session girls as a warning to other session wrestlers.

Speaking from my own experience, I have taken bookings from guys requesting either Fantasy or Semi Competitive wrestling. Then on session day, within minutes of the wrestling session starting, they go full competitive, their goal, to WIN by any means possible. I can understand how some men might misunderstand the term slight resistance in semi comp. With regards to fantasy wrestling I really don’t grasp WTF they are thinking.

I pride myself on clear communication in emails for two reasons 1) Clients receive the session type they have requested and are more likely to rebook 2) Everyone is clear on the do’s and don’ts, and neither party is offended or injured.

How To Book a Session Wrestler or Dominatrix

Mixed Wrestling Story

Below is an example from previous session several months ago. We call our subject John for the purposes of this story. John books a semi competitive wrestling session outlining in his emails that he has sessioned before. He enjoys head scissors, chokes, schoolgirl pins with an element of face sitting.

I ask John his height, weight and what his interpretation of semi competitive wrestling is. I also mention that I DO NOT OFFER COMPETITIVE. John replied stating that he would like a friendly match, but really just enjoys some light wrestling with domination. Current weight 225 lbs, height 6ft 4in.

John was a good match, so I booked him in. Upon arrival John did indeed seem nice, we chatted briefly for a few minutes before starting the session. I did not get any indication on Johns actual intentions until several minutes into the session. John clearly had his own agenda.

Competitive Wrestling

John was after a full competitive wrestling match, not what he originally booked. This really pisses me off as I clearly explain in emails and on my website that I DO NOT OFFER FULL COMPETITIVE. I let the session continue placing John into several choke holds, big guys are strong but run out of gas fast. This still didn’t deter John and at one point he threw me across the room banging my head on the floor.

At this point I was ready to end the session, but he apologised and after a few minutes I continued. The session re-commenced and initially the intensity was dialled down, but this didn’t last for long. John was still using way to much force considering I was half his size, during one move he clipped the side of my face with his elbow, I had enough, I was furious.

I managed to place John into a rear naked choke, took a large deep breath, pushed his head forward and down, cutting off his air supply. It wasn’t long before John was out cold.

I released the choke letting John recover, then ordered him to leave the room, the session was over. Although things could have been much worse, I escaped with just a bump on my head and a bruise on my cheek. Had it not been for the private wrestling lessons that I have been attending, things could have been much worse.

Semi Comp Wrestling Hazards

Often girls will not want to end a session early, due to upsetting a client and receiving a bad review, despite the client putting the girl in an uncomfortable position.

From experience, I have learnt that if a session doesn’t feel right in the first few minutes. I will stop the session, give the client the opportunity to cool down and lower their resistance. If the same behaviour continues and I feel that my safety is compromised, I will end the session.

Thankfully it doesn’t happen very often, and is very rare, clearer communication in emails and checking the time wasters list on session girls helps to weed out, time wasters and dangerous clients.

Booking a Mixed Wrestling Session

Both female session wrestlers and male clients have their own interpretations of “fantasy wrestling vs semi competitive”. It is vital that there is clear communication and boundaries set, so to avoid disappointment and injury. There will always be dangerous men who wish to hurt women, hopefully with better communication between fellow wrestlers. Men with this type of agenda can be avoided or at the very least reported to warn others, girl power.

Interested in booking a session with Sara? check out my Tours page for my latest travel destinations. You can find a comprehensive list of services I offer with fetish descriptions on my Booking page. PLEASE only inquire if you are serious about booking, my time is limited. Remember to check out my latest articles on my Blog and Follow Sara on Twitter.

Mixed Wrestling London (revised)

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Do you enjoy tussling with hot, semi naked, uk lady wrestlers, Yes! you’re not alone. A large percentage of bdsm sessions I offer involve some form of mixed wrestling, (pin wrestling, submission wrestling, grappling, schoolgirl pins). After 6 years as a session wrestler, I can honestly say, guys freaking love wrestling, especially in London.

I’ll admit that when I first entered the world of session wrestling I relied solely on brute strength. Now I’m a whole different animal, a badass with skills to match. It seems like a lifetime ago when I first advertised on wb270 one of oldest wrestling directories, featuring hundreds of women who wrestle men.

Mixed Wrestling London

When traveling to London I stay in Kensington or Chelsea which is usually every 4 – 6 weeks. I prefer to book hotels as they have more amenities with larger rooms, I travel with a large mat for wrestling sessions. Depending on the type of bdsm session requested, I will either use the floor, bed or both.

Most semi competitive wrestling sessions are on the mat, it allows for freedom of movement and a realistic feel to the session. I do not offer full competitive mixed wrestling sessions.

There are female wrestling rooms/studios set up specifically for wrestling in London. Some men prefer booking the use of a wrestling studio as it adds to the experience, others prefer the more intimate setting of an apartment or hotel room.

Wrestling clubs in London are booked by the hour. You can choose from a selection of female wrestlers you wish to session with. Prices range from £150 – £250 per hour, most female wrestlers don’t offer extras. Sensual wrestling, nude wrestling, facesitting, ballbusting and tie and tease, are fetishes that are not permitted.

Mixed wrestling London is popular, I would advise booking early and paying your deposit to secure your spot. I never rush my sessions and leave adequate time between bookings to allow for conversation, relaxation and showers.

For Wrestling Bookings, Email: saralipswrestling.com

Female Submission Wrestling

Seasoned fans of wrestling who have followed the wrestling scene, (WWE) since early childhood know all the moves. They have their favorites and love to incorporate them into their mixed wrestling sessions.

Some of the most requested wrestling moves/holds include: (headscissors, bodyscissors, figure4, grapevine, schoolgirl pins, sleeper hold, boston grab, face sit, breast smother, victory pose).

When I first began wrestling I relied on strength, I then hired a wrestling coach to improve my skills and increase the standard of my wrestling sessions. Four years later and hours spent on the mats, I’m officially a badass. My coach has taught me various forms of wrestling, (catch wrestling, freestyle wrestling, combat submission wrestling).

I have also been learning, MMA, (takedowns, arm bars, pressure points, legs locks, slices, chokes, pummelling). My favourite moves are arm bars – kimura lock and chokes.

London Mixed Wrestling FAQ’s

Q. Do you offer nude wrestling sessions?

A. In the interest of hygiene, NO. Male clients must wear either, shorts, boxers or underwear that secures your “Man Junk” in place while wrestling.

Q. Do you offer multiple fetishes during the hour?

A. Yes, some clients may split their session into several parts to include wrestling and another fetish of their choice. Please see my London mistress page where you can find a full list of the fetishes I offer.

Q. Do I need to pay a deposit?

A. Deposits are a requirement for all mixed wrestling London sessions. I require a 50% deposit paid upfront before your booking is confirmed. Read what others are saying about Sara on session girls.

Book a mixed wrestling session uk, for my latest travel dates, visit saralipwrestling.com/tours.

Wrestling articles you may be interested in:

Sensual Wrestling Explained
Fantasy Wrestling vs Semi Competitive
Your First Mixed Wrestling Session

Ass Worship Escort

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Before you commence reading my latest article, I want you to ask yourself a question. Are you a breast or ass man? Maybe your conflicted, and love both. Would you hire the services of an ass worship escort? solely for the purpose of worshipping her exquisite ass.

Over the past few years travelling the world I have catered for many fetishes. Some men, generally submissive types, love nothing more than to worship their mistresses ass, body or feet. Men who have this type of fetish worship certain parts of a females anatomy. Usually the body part that causes the most arousal will be the centre of their admiration.

Ass Worship Definition

Ass worship is a type of worship for those with an ass fetish. It is also a submissive worship predominantly in a Sub relationship. Ass worship is performed by burying the face into the luscious ass cheeks of the female. The act of ass worship is generally performed with a thong or pants on, but the female may also be naked. There are several popular ass worship positions which I have listed below.

Ass Worship Positions

Against the wall : This is where the female stands close to a wall with her back arched and her ass pert. The male drops to his knees and pushes his face into the females ass cheeks worshipping her ass.

Face Sitting : The female can either squat down over the man face or rest on her knees while she leans back sitting on the mans face. This position is also called ass smothering due to the females rear cutting of the mans oxygen supply.

The Sandwich : As the name suggest, the female lies down onto the bed face down with her ass perked up into the air. The man then bury’s his face into the mistresses ass cheeks creating the filling for the sandwich.

The Prayer : One of my favourite, the female sits on a chair with most of her ass hanging off the chair. The man kneels down into a prayer position and leans forward placing his face deep into the females ass checks.

Ass Worship Escort

The practice of ass worship can cause serious sexual arousal to the male. If you are looking for an extreme ass worship session where there are few limitations, it is important you discuss everything prior to booking to prevent any miscommunication. Some session girls will perform ass worship and face sitting, others not. Many girls will also have there own set of boundaries e.g as to whether they wear spandex, lingerie or perhaps nothing. All is dependent on the girl in question, so remember to to be respectful of boundaries guys!

Extreme Ass Worship

Some men require that extra level of depravity. They love nothing more than burying there head between a pair of naked ass cheeks, pressing their mouth tight up to the females sphincter. Men who love extreme ass worship thrive on sniffing, caressing and rimming the butt hole of the female.

This is defined as Analingus – aka rimming is an extreme form of ass worship where not only the ass but sphincter are worshipped. Men who request this type of ass worship session will spend a lengthy amount of time licking, tonguing and cleaning their mistresses asshole.

Some dominatrixes will offer this type of hardcore ass worshipping, but check before you book to avoid disappointment. You may be surprised to know that many females actually enjoy this type of oral, so your mistress or dominatrix may get sexually turned on by your efforts to worship her ass.

What Rimming Feels Like For a Women

Whilst searching the internet, for research on thoughts of Ass Worship, here is what one particular women had to say about it.”I really like it. There are a lot of nerve endings there, and people hold a lot of tension there too, and when the sphincter muscles relax it’s a whole level of relaxation and openness that I hardly ever get to feel. But also, it’s SO up-close and personal, with the giver’s face and tongue right there, it also gives me an unprecedented feeling of being accepted 100%. And that’s fabulous. I fucking loved it. So good”

Other search terms that are popular when searching for a mistress who offers ass worship sessions are (ass worship escort, face sitting mistress, ass worship dominatrix, domme escort, ass smothering). Then simply add you location to the search term to bring up the results, ie UK, London, Scotland.

Interested in booking an ass worship session with myself, please use my contact form. You can check out my latest tour dates on my tours page. For a full list of all fetishes I offer, head over to my London Dominatrix page. Please note that I am primarily a session girl and dominatrix, not escort and this article is write purely to help define better the ins and outs of ass worship.