Facesitting Mistress | Queening Fetish

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Facesitting is one of the more erotic fetishes that I offer, if you search the term Facesitting Mistress, Google will return an astonishing 108,000,000 results. So it would be fair to say that sitting on a mans face is a popular fetish. Men will book a face sitting session with sole purpose of having a female sit on their face.

Why Men Love Facesitting?

Relating to my own own personal experiences, and having spoken to clients who love facesitting. I believe for many it is the aspect of control many men enjoy within facesitting. The feeling of humiliation, body worship, intimacy, sex odours and the inability to control your breathing causes a heightened sexual arousal. Many men also seem to enjoy verbal trash talking during a facesitting session, that feeling of being at the complete mercy of their mistress.

Queening Fetish

Facesitting, is also known as queening or kinging. Jay Wiseman’s “Erotic Bondage Handbook,” defines it as “sitting or squatting over the face so that the anal (sphincter) or genital area is pressed against the mans face.” She says “It has the implication of forced oral and can incorporate breath play control and smothering. The experience can be heightened by the dominatrix / mistress trash talking to the submissive while sitting on his face.”

Facesitting Outfit Requests

Over the years I have had many clothing requests for face sitting sessions (Jeans, Leggings, Underwear, Swimsuit, G String, Spandex, Tights, Leather, PVC, Lingerie, Mini Skirt).

Face sitting positions is another important factor e.g forward vs reverse vs the hoover position where the female squats over the mans face. Some men request that their arms be locked using your feet or rope, completely immobilising them.

If there is a particular outfit that you wish me to wear and I do not currently own the item of clothing, you can 1)Purchase the item and bring it with you, please check with me for my size. 2) Include the cost of the item in your deposit, including any postage costs. I will then purchase the item and bring it with me.

Facesitting Fetish

Life events, especially in our early childhood years, seem to have a significant impact on our lives. Over the years I have questioned clients as to how their fetish or fetishes evolved. Many have reminisced of an  earlier childhood experience with a female not necessarily of the same age. To quote a previous clients first hand experience of how his face sitting fetish evolved.

“I was playing with my older female cousin who was 14 years old at the time. My interest in girls had significantly increased since I hit puberty. I remember one day in particular, my cousin was wearing a short skirt and tight top. At times we would play wrestle to see who was the strongest, on this occasion out of know where she flipped me onto my back and sat on my face.

Part of me was in shock, yet incredibly aroused. I could feel the soft skin of her bum and panties touching my face and mouth. Her bum engulfed my face cutting off my air supply and I couldn’t see a thing. I remember the feeling of helplessness, lack of oxygen and her sweet scent”.

I have thought about my first facesitting experience with my cousin countless times, Ever since then, facesitting, ass smothering and ass worship have been my all time favourite fetishes”.

Face Smothering – Breathe Play

Full pressure face sitting can also be referred to as Face Smother or Ass Smothering. The two are very similar in nature, however with face smothering the individual is deprived of oxygen. Such an effect can induce a semi-hallucinogenic state. Combine this with an orgasm, is said to be the equivalent to cocaine.

A 2005 book chapter by Dr Brenda Love (in Russ Kick’s Everything You Know About Sex is Wrong) examined some of the strangest sexual behaviours from around the world and included a short section on queening (face sitting).

She wrote:
“The term queening refers to the European practice of a dominant female (dominatrix) using a man’s head as her throne. The woman sits in one of several positions, either on the side of the man’s head or so that his nose is near her anus with his eyes covered by her genitals. The object of queening is bondage or breath control, not cunnilingus”.

Facesitting Escort

I thought I should mention that while I do offer erotic facesitting, I do not offer full service. Of course you could hire the services of a facesiting escort who provides a GFE experience. Depending on what you wish to experience, facesitting with sex or facesitting with domination will determine your decision.

Facesitting Mistress

Hire the services of a facesitting mistress is a simple process, first fill in my contact form with the relevant information, (Location, Date, Time, Type of Session, etc). All BDSM sessions require a deposit before they are confirmed. You can find my latest tour dates on my tours page and the following directory’s, BadKity and Session Girls.

I frequent London on a regular basis, every 4 – 6 weeks, staying in Central London. I am also available for BDSM sessions in my home country of Ireland, (Dublin).

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