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Women scissoring men, I like to compare to the act of an Anaconda slowing attacking it’s pray. Slowly enticing her victim’s body in deep between her thighs. Soon she will begin to trap her victim’s body between them, by tightening her clenched adductor muscles.

It will only then be a matter of time before, her pray will realize there is no room for escape! Only a slow malicious act will follow. As, she slowly begins to apply pressure, squeezing the victim’s body in question as if she is trying to strangle him, making it hard for him to breathe and further escape.

Mixed wrestling scissoring variations

Some of the most popular types of scissoring practiced are front head scissors, body scissors, reverse head scissors, and variations of the figure four position.

Often the first time many men have witnessed scissoring has been in the infamous Xenia Onatopp scene, in the James Bond movie Golden Eye. I have lost count of the amount of men, who would like to reenact this famous scene from the movies!

In the James bond movies, strong dominant but feminine females may I add, play a key role in the blockbusters and certainly do not shy away from the action either. Other confrontational scenes include the gypsy catfight in From Russia with Love and another scissor scene this time from Bambi and Thumper in Diamonds are Forever.

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Girl head scissors

Women scissoring men and wrestling in the movies, has therefore been mainstream for a while. However maybe not have received the recognition it should have until now.

The sexual fetish scissoring

Mixed wrestling scissors make up a large category of pins in wrestling that are typically unused but popular among those that enjoy the sexually submissive element of grappling.

Why do men become aroused at the thought of being scissored between a women’s thighs? Well, it is thought that the act of squeezing itself can produce a sexual response on behalf of the receiver through feeling of helplessness, admiration or strength and complete submission toward the women scissoring them.

While it is possible for both men and women to enjoy scissor holds, it is typically the case that men are more on the receiving end than women. Perhaps, due to the higher percentage of submissive men thought to be within the BDSM scene. There is no reason however, that the scissor submission can’t be administered by a male to a female.

Revere head scissor

The position of the scissoring holds can vary depending on the desire of the person receiving them. While the scissor is typically practiced around the neck region, holds around the entire body of the submissive individual are not uncommon. Another very common scissor position is the reverse head scissor.

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Reverse head scissors

All holds are usually administered with the receiver on their back and the giver on top of them.

In sessions, I have even had smaller guys ask me to scissor there body, to include their arms trapped by their side. This completely paralyzes the receiver, forever trapped within my body scissor hold.

Some receivers do seem to like to struggle while they are being held to help amplify their feeling of helplessness. It is funny to watch how hard it is for a guy to escape, from between my thighs during sessions. In fact, after putting all one’s strength into attempting to escape, a recurring pattern of one becoming extremely still seems to appear. The feeling of dismay as one gives up, letting me demonstrate how easy it is for me to keep them under my control.

I just love big muscular thighs

Muscle worship is also a common fetish associated with women scissoring men. Those who enjoy being at the receiving end of submission may find a lot of sexual pleasure through the admiration of strong dominant individuals. Due to the size and nature of the leg muscles, scissor holds can be incredibly difficult for individuals to break out of and the ultimate way to experience a leg fetish if you may have one!

Two types of Guy who adore scissoring sessions:

  • The Pain Junkie
  • Trapped Tony

The first guy is the kind of session guy, who will drain every last bit of energy out of you! Sessioning with Pain Junkies certainly makes for a good leg workout, as you will often find the harder you squeeze they will want MORE. It can be particularly frustrating if the guy doesn’t tap, obviously because he likes pain. However, what does this mean? Session girls will only crank it up until he does! Everybody must leave having tapped (evil grins).

Trapped Tony, is a completely different kind of session guy, he rather prefers a softer scissor session. He is a not a pain junkie and certainly does not like sharp snap scissoring. But instead, prefers if you keep him hanging around. I believe the reason these guys like a softer session is because they prefer the feeling of being trapped and a sheer loss of control, where the women can demonstrate who has the upper hand, but does not necessarily have to use her full power to do so.

It is usually also a more playful kind of style. Either that or these guys just simply want to keep their heads and ribs alive and functioning between my lethal thighs.

Why do men love scissoring?

A while ago, I did a poll on “why men love the feeling of women scissoring men?” The results where pretty close with 45% of guys saying they liked the power/strength aspect best. 38% liking the loss of control and lastly 17% having a leg fetish. Of course some guys said they liked all three. Greedy!
Here is what some guys had to say in response to my women scissoring men poll on twitter.

Manolo Enrique : Love being scissored…incredible how powerful these ladies are, especially when your trapped between their thighs.

Ben Moore : Being Absolutely dominated by someone very feminine. Definitely all three for me as its hard to separate.

Wrestler Dave : No longer being in control and being at a women’s mercy.

Eric Grappler : I love how a woman’s thighs feel on the sides of my neck, not a painful triangle choke, more of a playful trap and squeeze.

Mikey Wrestler : The feeling of slowly being squeezed into unconsciousness by a strong woman.

John Sloss : The thought of someone sexy and powerful like you in control with your beautiful legs and toned muscular body.

Thank you guys for reading this post, I hope you liked being able to get an insight as to why other guys love scissoring. If you would like to experience a private scissor session with me, please check out my tour page to see if I am coming to a city near you.

14 replies
  1. Anthony
    Anthony says:

    Good article as usual.

    I think my rationale for liking headscissors differs slightly. For me it is about the fun and sensual experience of having my head between a sexy woman’s soft but strong thighs, the view (whether in front or reverse headscissors), and then the sensation becoming light headed from the squeeze (and if I don’t tap in time, then the dream like sensation of the KO, and “what just happened” moment when waking up afterwards). And sometimes when a session girl has a reputation of having a strong scissors I like to feel it for myself again more for the experience and not because I like pain.

    To me it is a great asset if a session girl is able to do both the powerful (and painful) headscissors and the more technical headscissors where the guy feels increasing pressure of reduced blood flow to the brain rather than actual pain. depending on what is requested.

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Hi Anthony, thanks for the comment, I do love to hear varied opinions on why guys like scissoring. After all each person is an individual, so what one person likes may not be the same for someone else. Thanks for sharing your view.

      S x

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  2. Ben Moore
    Ben Moore says:

    Hi Sara,

    Thank you again for this write-up! I had never thought of the Pain Junkie vs. Trapped Tony distinction before. I think I’m the former, since I love when the woman ignores tap-outs and makes me beg (for a few seconds–I’m not THAT crazy!). For me this is also a deep expression of female control, but with a healthy dose of sadism.

    Either way, the question why men wan to be scissored is largely a psychological matter; it’s not simply about the physical contact. As another indication of this, men (myself included) often want a psychological connection with the woman–they want to feel like she underst
    ands what she is doing to him and why. Which is all the more reason I love your posts on these topics!
    – Ben

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Hi Ben,

      Thank you for another nice comment, yes I agree a connection is important in sessions, is important to res the vibe and take you to the level of perhaps pain/fear/entrapment you want to feel but yet again gauge when is time to release! Hopefully one day soon we will get to meet and have a great session together!

      All the best

      S x

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  3. Jamie
    Jamie says:

    I love this. The fact that you understand and actually seem to appreciate the kink from a receiver’s perspective makes you very appealing to a young lad who’s never even considered “sessioning” until now.

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  4. Steven
    Steven says:

    I think i’m both pain junkie, and trapped tony. I don’t give up in a session very easily and wouldn’t call my self a big man at all, I’m 5’8 and 115 pounds, At the age of 27. You can easily put me down but I love the pleasure of being trapped and in pain, and still trying to get my way out. I also have taken full power sessions from bodybuilders such as Ana Konda, Sydney Thunder, Alina Popa, Amber Deluca, and a few others. Cannot wait to session with you.

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Hi Steven thanks for your comment. Pain junkie and trapped Tony lol, you sound as if you love it all. The girls you have wrestled with are seriously strong girls who I am sure did both, inflict pain and trap you. Maybe someday soon we will get to met for a session, until then take care.

      S x

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  5. Steve
    Steve says:

    Sara, you are so intelligent and so wise. I have learned though, that men, with comparatively simply minds, have no capacity to understand EITHER men or Women. You as a Woman, with a much more complicated mind, have a profound understanding of both. You have just perfectly identified and exposed what’s in our minds, which allows you to control us at will.

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Thanks Steve, I wouldn’t say I’m an expert by an means, each individual is different, and so we will never fully understand how each individual thinks or reacts to things etc however at least we can try understand the way the majority of minds try to relate with each other! Many Thanks for you Support

      S x

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  6. Squeezetoy
    Squeezetoy says:

    Hi sara love the comments about scissoring. For me its all about the bodyscissor and for a woman ignoring tap out and squeeze me until I pass out. It’s a feeling of euphoria and a real turn on. Would you be travelling to new zealand at all?

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Thank You for your kind comment, at present I have not visited that part of the world, however I do hope that i could make it to Australasia some day hopefully! x

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  7. Chad Austin
    Chad Austin says:

    I like being scissored because I’m attracted to strong women. And I like being dominated by a woman. Especially when they use one of the sexiest parts of their bodies ( their thighs) And i love the feeling of their thighs around my head slowly squeezing harder until I submit to them. It’s one of the best experiences I think every man should try at least once.

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    • Sara
      Sara says:

      Hi Chad, thanks for the comment, I agree many men who are intrigued by dominant women often are hooked after their first experience.

      S x

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