This week I am excited yet nervous as I embark on my first ever mixed wrestling tour in Europe, that is outside of the UK! Munich is the chosen destination. I am expecting the Germans to be quite strong and am looking forward to that! However, I guess it is things such as the language barrier I am apprehensive about. I will therefore be making sure to have my google translator handy, as my days of German tuition in high school have not done me much good. Only remembering the obscure words such as taschenrechnor German for calculator and dick meaning fat, if I remember right. As, we all used to laugh as immature school girls at that.
A few of the bookings I have for Munich, are with guys who want to experience there first ever session wrestling session. I see this as an honor and privilege to be chosen to share such special memories with. From my experiences of delivering these, I thought it might be quite useful to come up with a few things you may find useful to consider before making heads way on the session of your dreams. These are the type of session, “type” of lady you wish to wrestle with and of course the standard practice in mixed wrestling ( because I hate to call thing rules, rules suck!)
Mixed Wrestling is Not Sex!
While a mixed wrestling session is fun and exciting, I would urge you not to expect the lady to engage in sex before, during or after. This is the norm in session wrestling for anyone who may be unsure or feel mislead. It is not to say that some ladies do not offer alternative services, but this is in the minority. The purpose of session wrestling is so you can experience a lady who is talented at wrestling and feel her incredible physique up close and personal. It often involves an element of control and in this case, usually involves you handing over power. By all means wrestling can be sensual and erotic as it is a body to body contact sport after all.
For those of you who are perhaps embarrassed that you may develop an “erection” during the rough and tumble. You will not be the only one and most ladies will have first hand experience with this, so don’t freight about that. Every lady has different standards, some may allow topless or nudity and others not. I therefore always say it is best to ask first than be let down. When emailing ask the lady what her do’s and dont’s are and if there is something that is a deal breaker for you, ask if she provides this, of course do it in a nice way and gentlemanly tone not arrogant. And, you will find most ladies will often appreciate your honesty.
The main categories of session wrestling are fantasy, semi-competitive and competitive. Fantasy is where the lady remains in control throughout the match and the man does not resist. In semi-competitive, you may offer resistance and even win a pin or two but over all the lady should still prevail ( depending on how hard you go at it.) In competitive, both the man and the woman work hard against each other for pins and submissions, however please note most ladies do not offer this due to the high risk of injury. I always prefer to call sessions semi competitive i.e good sport and light hearted fun where both competitors give resistance, but mutual respect remains to stop the match or tap out if it is felt too rough or someone is getting seriously hurt.
Who do I choose for my first session?
Sessions can also be made up of various elements depending on who you session with, which is especially good for first timers. I love to incorporate wrestling, lift and carry, arm wrestling and strength tests for first time sessions, gauging what the person enjoys most and taking the direction of the session from there… There are numerous ladies of great talent who offer mixed wrestling sessions. Some of which are bodybuilders and can combine muscle worship along with the over empowerment of session wrestling.
If you wish a fun session reminiscent of playful wrestling matches with young ladies like that of your college years, there are also beautiful women who specialise in just this sort of encounter. And for something more aggressive, a lady who is very large and or skilled in martial arts can take you in competitive session. There are also plenty of women who are dominatrixes that engage in mixed wrestling. They are accustomed to combining submission holds such as face sitting, slapping and other traditional domination techniques with wrestling.
It is important for people to respect each other. FACT! No matter what type of session you have chosen, nobody wishes to see how macho you are in a bad way. Injuring or beating up a woman is certainly not acceptable under any circumstances! If this should happen, you will find yourself blacklisted in the world of session wrestling very quickly. Remember, news travels fast!
Respect is also important in the form of not time wasting. Most session wrestlers you will find ask for deposits, as this allows them to schedule their diary accordingly with space in between sessions, as well as showing commitment from both of you to the session taking place. In this case, it is therefore expected for you to pay the deposit. If ever in doubt check she is reputable or has a good reputation. If she is easily accessed on social platforms etc you will usually find she is, as she is open to exposure. After all reputation is everything in this game!
What you would like?
This is the most important part. If you are interested in an intense over empowerment, a dominatrix who is larger can often give you just the session you are thinking of. Some women also naturally gravitate towards or specialise in certain areas, which they soon become renowned for. Such as Amber Deluca for lift and carry overhead, Arekah Lox “The Bully” Roleplay and VeveLane for bondage wrestling. whatever you are considering, there is the ideal session wrestler for you! Don’t be shy to try new things either, as by doing so, you will find just what exactly it is you like about mixed wrestling.
I don’t believe in playing the dom from the door as I think it is vital to discuss things and get the right balance before delving into role-play and fulfilling your session requests. For me, it is highly important that you feel safe, when handing over power to me in full control. This I believe is the key aspect between the submissive-domination aspect which many people forget. It is a connection full of electricity based and enthused on trust.
If you do wish for the girl to dominate you from the door however, arrange all your safe words, do’s, dont’s and limitations before the session takes place. This will allow for things to run smoothly, ensure you get everything you want and prevent any awkwardness.
The Big Day
I’m not gonna lie to you! You will probably find yourself with sweaty palms and highly strung on the big day! Please remember, we are just normal people. This is what I tell all guys, so don’t let nerves get the better of you! However, I was always told that nerves are a good thing though as it is connected to the adrenaline rush. Personally I have found , it is often guys feel awkward because it is something weird they are doing, and perhaps not the social norm in their country.
Fear is a deterrent, do not let it stop you from taking up the chance to have a fab time with a gorgeous lady. Play it cool, sign up and show up! I can remember one of the guys who has now had three sessions with me, first ever encounter! He was that nervous and fidgety, I thought he was on drugs, trying to figure out how to get out of the situation. After ten minutes however it became apparent he was incredibly nervous, almost star struck in fact and once he realised how easy going and nice I was, he relaxed and had a very enjoyable session.
If you take all of these factors into consideration, you are set on your way to one mighty fine first session experience! Question is, who do you chose? If you would like to book a session with myself, please fill out the relevant info on my contact page.